investigation work continues

Well I made my fake my space and added the creep. He accepted my friend request and I posted a comment "we should party sometime". He sent me back a message and asked me what my plans are this weekend. I wrote back and said that I have no plans Friday and live in concord. I asked him what his thought is. Keep your fingers crossed for me.

Back to school

Well the girls are back to school and not excited about it (well Heather and Theresa). Heather's special eduction case manager ended up having her baby and Heather is a little upset about her not being there. She had the baby early and they do not have a sub for her yet. Theresa is Theresa and just wants to sit on the computer or be hanging out with friend. Julia is doing very well in school and enjoys being there. I talked to the police and they found the hard copy of the warrent for that Jerk Josh but need a address before they can do anything so I guess I will be doing there job still and trying to find out where he is. Nothing to exciting going on but I wanted to post something.

investigation work

So after calling the police about Theresa case from a few years ago and them not seeming to have much interest I emailed Cassie and asked her to phone the police and tell them where his grandmother lives and she claims that she doesn't know. She said she has not spoken to him and that about a year ago he requested to have him added to her myspace. So I did a search for him in my space and found him. It does not have an address or anything of course. So I set up a false my space page and requested to have him added to my friends and sent him an email saying "hey you look familiar have you ever partied in Pittsfield". I guess I will have to find out exactly where he is so I can take the exact address to the police. Wish me luck!

other people's kids

So there is this brat name Jasmine who drives me crazy. She is a year younger than Theresa and has been harassing Theresa for months now. Now she has moved on to harassing Heather as well. The other day Heath told me that when he and Heather were walking down the street this girl was yelling Retard at them and when Heather was outside and this girl walked by she was calling Heather a fatty. I called her mom again and this time said to her "I have bit my toungue when it came to Theresa becasue I am sure that Theresa is saying things back to her and there is nothing I can do until she stops saying things back to Jasmine. However it has got out of hand and now Jasmine is saying things to other memebers of the family and I am not going to put up with that". Her response to me was I will try to talk to Jasmine but you know how she is. I told her that I would take it to the next step if it doesnt stop. Last night Jasmine walked by my apartment and was screaming bitch, fatty, and skank really loud as she walked by. I am not quite sure what else to do but it is getting really old and I am sick of it.

Enough of that It is Saturday and beautiful outside. I think I will go relax outside and read.

vacation week

Well it is vacation week here in Pittsfield and the girls are spending the days at home while I am working. Last night Heath told Theresa that she could have a friend sleep over (by the way I usually do not allow kids to spend the night when I have to work). They stayed up late and decided that it would be fun to wake Julia up (she fell asleep at 800) at 1130 and torment her. Heather and Theresa went to the park today with out calling me and letting me know where they were going. Heath came home early and found them walking around with a boy and Theresa got in trouble. I had to then sit there and listen to Theresa say how mean we were because she wasnt allowed to go out for the rest of the day. I came home and had a wonderful dinner. I cleaned up from dinner and going to get ready for bed. Theresa is in the house for the rest of the week so it should be pretty calm.

softball season

Softball season is underway. Heather had her first practice on Friday. This is her first year playing and it looks like she will have a great coach for her first year. It is not the coach that the other two have had but I think he will be as great. Heather was placed in the catchers position and did pretty good. She enjoyed it and would like to practice more in that position. Julia and Theresa had their first practice today. Theresa did not really want to play but I said yes. She does not want to play because of these two girls that have been on her team in the past. She does not get along with them and their dad is really rude. I already am biting my tongue because he loves to make comments to the girls when they make a mistake and it drives me crazy. He is so rude. I think that I am going to make a compliant about him standing at the line making comments to the girls. However I really want the girls playing sports it is important that they have something to do so they are not getting in trouble.

Heather

Well it is Friday morning the day before my favorite day of the week. The girls are off to school and it is the last day before spring break. Last night I was sitting with Heather helping her with her word bank homework. She had to take two words and make them into one. For example neighbor and hood. They were listed in a rows then she had to match them with the meaning. She struggled doing this work and it makes me so sad that she struggles so much. The other day she was at her old babysitters house and got frustrated with the other children because they would not listen to what she wanted to do (friendships are also hard for Heather) and she went outside and used a stick to scratch her initials into her arm. I really do not want her to start hurting herself when she gets frustrated. I really do not know how to help her and it makes me so sad. Well I should finish getting ready for work. Until next time have a great day!!! Do not forget to enjoy the nice weather.

4-16-09

Well today was as uneventful as any other day. I got the kids off to school and got ready for work. After school Heather came over to see me at the daycare and the kids in my class just got so excited (they really love her). She informed me that her case manager at school had her baby (which I already knew from her teacher in an email) and that Liam was 6 weeks early. The picture that she saw showed him with tubes on his body. She is a little concerned for her Mrs. Bowes and her new baby. When I got out of work we went grocery shopping and brought Heather with us which meant we spent to much money. My sister called me while we were at the grocery store to let me know that she has made homemade mashed potato's. She is 32 and just started making home made mashed potato's about 2 years ago (imagine that). Then got home to put all the groceries away and help her with her homework. The other two were not around til 8 because they had to help with child care at the PYW (Pittsfield Youth Workshop). Now I am relaxing on the computer. Tomorrow starts our season of soft ball so we will be pretty busy the next couple of months because all 3 are playing this year. Until next time everyone relax and enjoy life.

4-15-09

Well I have decided to try this blog thing out. My sister seems to enjoy it and maybe I can use it as a place to vent about my very busy life with teen daughters. I will try to fit this into my schedule that consist of being a wife, mom, and full time employee at a childcare center working with 4 year olds. Today was a pretty easy day since I only had 5 children in my class out of 10. I came home to do the dishes that I did not do last night then Heath made dinner (he does not make dinner every night however when he doesn't work he makes dinner). Helped Heather with homework (it is very hard for her to do). Now I am going to hang out on the computer for a little while before going to bed.